This has confused me for so long

mommy-cuteella:

girljanitor:

mommy-cuteella:

How can one measure if a disability or disorder affects you at work (and thus “is really a disability”) if you are your own boss?  If you get along with people and do well with your job, are you automatically not disabled?  If you move to a job that’s less your thing, are you suddenly disabled again?

I’m not my own boss at one of my jobs, but I am at the others.  And the one where I’m not requires far less social interaction than the others.

There are extreme answers to my question, i.e. Amy of Amy’s Baking Company, but most people are not that extreme.

This is just one of the reasons that disability is socially constructed.

Disability as a concept is created by an expectation that everyone has the same skillsets and abilities, and basically everyone suffers for that. Disabled people just suffer the most from it.

It’s also very connected to capitalism=morality, which is why feminism has failed us over and over. Liberal feminism is very much invested in the idea of “financially liberating” women, and according to that system, income is equivalent to worth and power, “independence” is equivalent to “empowerment”, which is their goal.

The arbitrary and subjective nature of the application of the term “disabled” combined with its association with worthlessness as pertains to capitalism, i.e., “cannot work” (which is how it is actually defined for the most part in government), really boils down to “You’re disabled if you can’t do what other people expect you to be able to do, whatever that might be.”

Feminism also often fails to recognize women abusing women, and my mother, without a reputation as disabled, was more of a “real woman” than I anyway.  My mother was very much a feminist.  I was a freak her followers gawked at, disbelieving that she wasn’t supporting me.  They wouldn’t believe anything negative about her.  Always told me I must be proud.  Her few critics just pitied me and told their own daughters or granddaughters to be grateful they weren’t in my shoes, said they “felt so sorry for me”.

I digress.  Being my own boss short-circuits the brains of people who subconsciously think “You’re disabled if you can’t do what other people expect you to be able to do, whatever that might be.”  And of course they say I must do everything wrong then.

Funny how everything goes back to my mother.  Funny as in tragic.

Yeah. I’ve made some fairly harrowing posts before, prompted by the tendency of “feminists” to encourage people to empathize with murdering mothers of disabled women and girls over the actual women who died. That, of course, is where the “real women” line of thinking ends up. Throwing women under the bus, because they aren’t Real PeopleTM, much less Real WomenTM.

I know how it goes with mothers, sometimes…I mean, my mother, in retrospect and according to people who meet her now, as opposed to people too close to her to evaluate these things, she’s pretty Autismal. And genderqueer. And unfortunately, she only had two gender roles to choose from, so she raised me to be her son. And I did my best to be hard and tough and “make it”, but I always fell short.

Then again, this is someone who in all seriousness told me if I’d chosen to go into biology, I would have cured cancer by now. I’m pretty sure that meeting her expectations would have been impossible no matter what.

Oh, mothers.

My mom’s not necessarily a feminist-activist, but she’s a rabble rouser and union-creator. Very much buys into capitalism=worth.

This has confused me for so long

mommy-cuteella:

How can one measure if a disability or disorder affects you at work (and thus “is really a disability”) if you are your own boss?  If you get along with people and do well with your job, are you automatically not disabled?  If you move to a job that’s less your thing, are you suddenly disabled again?

I’m not my own boss at one of my jobs, but I am at the others.  And the one where I’m not requires far less social interaction than the others.

There are extreme answers to my question, i.e. Amy of Amy’s Baking Company, but most people are not that extreme.

This is just one of the reasons that disability is socially constructed.

Disability as a concept is created by an expectation that everyone has the same skillsets and abilities, and basically everyone suffers for that. Disabled people just suffer the most from it.

It’s also very connected to capitalism=morality, which is why feminism has failed us over and over. Liberal feminism is very much invested in the idea of “financially liberating” women, and according to that system, income is equivalent to worth and power, “independence” is equivalent to “empowerment”, which is their goal.

The arbitrary and subjective nature of the application of the term “disabled” combined with its association with worthlessness as pertains to capitalism, i.e., “cannot work” (which is how it is actually defined for the most part in government), really boils down to “You’re disabled if you can’t do what other people expect you to be able to do, whatever that might be.”

INTERSECTIONALITY IN A SET OF GRAPHICS

1. David Kendig and Erika Cheng recently created this map of women’s mortality rates in the Unites States. The Blue areas are where the rates are improving, the aqua areas show minimal improvement, and the red areas show that the rates are worsening. The Washington Post goes into a frenzy of limp-brained speculation here-but they just can’t seem to say why these women are dying at an alarming rate.

2. Here is a map of the US African American population by percentage.

3. Here is a map of the US Latino population by percentage.

4. Here is a map of the US Native American population by percentage.

5. And here is a map of the people in the United States living in poverty by percentage.

If you superimpose maps 2-4, you more or less get the first map. The rest of the gaps are filled in by map 5.

Exceptions to the mortality rates are noticeable in California and New England, which might be explained by laws in place that allow access to services, relative affluence in the area, and/or this map:

So when I see Feministing and other websites posting the first map and hollering “WOMEN!!!!”, it always makes me wonder, which women are we talking about again?

For me, this isn’t some kind of “playing with ideas”, this is something incredibly tangible that affects not only me but my family. I moved to New England almost three years ago from Florida because I found that as a disabled woman of mixed race living in poverty, Florida would be quite happy to see me die in the street. I managed to narrowly dodge homelessness BY moving, after a year of going back to college not in small part because student loans became my only method of escaping what appeared to be a lifetime of menial labor. There ARE no state-allocated funds for college in Florida.

My mother and sisters still live in Florida, where my mother has been making efforts to start a union for registered nurses. My younger sister is working three jobs, and they still require state assistance to feed her son, and provide his medical care. They can barely make their bills each month. The only way they survive is by all living together and pooling funds, to which i sometimes add some monetary assistance as/when I can.

My mother was also a janitor who decided to put her last 60 dollars towards registering for community college classes, and I’m proud to follow in her footsteps; I’m glad that I at least didn’t have two children to care for while trying to complete my degree.

when I found myself at age 28, the same age as she was when she decided to go back to school, looking at a future that held thankless, backbreaking labor for a pittance of what it was worth, I also borrowed against my future in order to try and escape the trap America has built for us.

The disconnect between the people who make these maps and the people who are affected by them is something I have been trying to bridge for the last several years with my blood and bone. It hasn’t been easy, surrounded by people who take the power they have for granted, whose selective sociopathy and casual othering of everything I am has become possibly the greatest challenge I have faced.

I still believe that if I fight hard enough, I have to power to become one of the mapmakers. And that I might some day be able to change these maps.

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girljanitor:

vividgrim:

jadzbionic:

pocproblems:

girljanitor:

cyberfawn:

I’m all for women’s rights and stuff but like some people take it too far idk like obviously there are things that we need to work on as a society and there’s a whole lot wrong with societies views of women and the way we are expected to act but like a 12 year old girl was shot in the face for trying to go to school in Afghanistan?? idk in America we have it pretty good I guess I feel like a lot of the time ppl are just looking for something to complain about

I would like to show you how ass-ignorant you are right now.

Remember when a 7 year old girl IN AMERICA WAS LIT ON FIRE AND SHOT BY THE POLICE FOR EXISTING???

Or when Tanya McDowell, a Black single mother sent her child to a school outside her district  in hopes of getting the child a better education, received a 5 year prison sentence?????

Remember when Joe Arpaio is too busy forcing women to give birth in CHAINS to even both to investigate OVER 400 RAPES in his jurisdiction?

Or when the number of women in poverty are at an all-time historic high RIGHT NOW?

And that women of color are TWICE as likely to be poor as white women?

Or when the Scott sisters received life sentences for stealing $11 as teens?

Or when Marissa Alexander was sentenced to 20 years for firing a warning shot from a gun she legally owned at her abuser who was threatening to kill her, 9 days after giving birth?

Or when CeCe McDonald was put into prison for DEFENDING HERSELF AGAINST A NEO-NAZI TRYING TO KILL HER?

Or when South Carolina sterilized over 7,000 people, mostly Black women?


Or when Regina McKnight, Laura Pemberton, Rachel Lowe, Martina Greywind, Michelle Marie Greenup, and countless other women have been thrown in jail for being PREGNANT?

BUT YEAH WOMEN IN AMERICA HAVE IT PRETTY GOOD, RIGHT?

SHUT UP WITH YOU WHITE SAVIOR BULLSHIT AND CLEAN UP YOUR OWN FUCKING HOUSE BEFORE YOU START FUCKING AROUND IN OTHER PEOPLE’S HOUSES.

I’d also like to add that [from wikipedia] “In the United States, the median income for women is roughly 77% of the median income for men.”

^ that’s for WHITE women compared to WHITE men.  black men make less than white woman, and black women make even less than black men.  post-racial society, indeed.

B O L D E D

welp, this was pretty detailed. won’t say thorough because there’s definitely more.

Sadly, there’s always more. There’s probably ten more just from today. Honestly there’s no way to be thorough outside of writing a fuckin encyclopedia.

cyberfawn:

I’m all for women’s rights and stuff but like some people take it too far idk like obviously there are things that we need to work on as a society and there’s a whole lot wrong with societies views of women and the way we are expected to act but like a 12 year old girl was shot in the face for trying to go to school in Afghanistan?? idk in America we have it pretty good I guess I feel like a lot of the time ppl are just looking for something to complain about

I would like to show you how ass-ignorant you are right now.

Remember when a 7 year old girl IN AMERICA WAS LIT ON FIRE AND SHOT BY THE POLICE FOR EXISTING???

Or when Tanya McDowell, a Black single mother sent her child to a school outside her district  in hopes of getting the child a better education, received a 5 year prison sentence?????

Remember when Joe Arpaio is too busy forcing women to give birth in CHAINS to even both to investigate OVER 400 RAPES in his jurisdiction?

Or when the number of women in poverty are at an all-time historic high RIGHT NOW?

And that women of color are TWICE as likely to be poor as white women?

Or when the Scott sisters received life sentences for stealing $11 as teens?

Or when Marissa Alexander was sentenced to 20 years for firing a warning shot from a gun she legally owned at her abuser who was threatening to kill her, 9 days after giving birth?

Or when CeCe McDonald was put into prison for DEFENDING HERSELF AGAINST A NEO-NAZI TRYING TO KILL HER?

Or when South Carolina sterilized over 7,000 people, mostly Black women?


Or when Regina McKnight, Laura Pemberton, Rachel Lowe, Martina Greywind, Michelle Marie Greenup, and countless other women have been thrown in jail for being PREGNANT?

BUT YEAH WOMEN IN AMERICA HAVE IT PRETTY GOOD, RIGHT?

SHUT UP WITH YOU WHITE SAVIOR BULLSHIT AND CLEAN UP YOUR OWN FUCKING HOUSE BEFORE YOU START FUCKING AROUND IN OTHER PEOPLE’S HOUSES.

"To speak of Islamophobia as sentiment is a euphemism. Islamophobia is first and foremost state racism."

“Islamophobia: when the Whites lose their Triple A rating” by “Houria Bouteldja (via kawrage)

Bouteldja is pretty insightful here (emphasis is mine):

Such racism has no purpose other than to maintain a population in a subaltern state. The term “Muslim” is itself problematic. I am a Muslim, although 25 years ago – when I was already a Muslim – I wasn’t considered one. At that time I was considered a “beurette” or a second-generation immigrant. Self-identifying as a Muslim is not a problem; it’s even a source of pride. However, the fact that I am automatically considered a Muslim bothers me. After all, non-Muslims are not identified above all by their religion. It is a way of defining citizens according to categories and classifications put in place by public policy and debate. A whole population is automatically classified as Muslim without differentiating the practicing, agnostic or atheists among them. We are placed in the Muslim category regardless of our subjectivity.

Make sure you also read her piece on Western feminism

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marimo-jinguuji:

selfrescuingprincesssociety:

strugglingtobeheard:

girljanitor:

asgardreid:

girljanitor:

A photo tribute to Naomie Harris’s character, “Selena”, from 28 Days Later.

I saw this movie in the theater when it came out.

Anyhow, I really do think that The Walking Dead took like, pretty much its entire idea/concept from this movie. (I like the comic, but not the show, FYI.)

Anyhow, I think the character of Michonne was derived from Selena’s character (notice the machete and it’s resemblance to Michonne’s katana), but I think Selena’s character was

1. better done, more multi-dimensional

2. more like a real person

3. got a much better run being both “hyperfunctional” AND as a “damsel in distress”

But I *quite* like both characters, and think they’re both absolutely gorgeous. :)

I was thinking about it because BF had never seen 28 Days Later, and so we watched it together the other night. We both noticed how many of the visuals and ideas were “borrowed” from the film in the Walking Dead, including the series opening (waking up in hospital), the zombie apocalypse bring out the worst in humanity rather than the best, et cetera.

Although the 28 Days Later premise of “PETA caused the zombie apocalypse” will always be near and dear to my heart. XD

I ship Michonne and Selena. Katanachete.

^ we have a winner

I don’t watch the walking dead but I really did like Selena’s character and the way it all played out. She was strong and independent but also obviously scared and vulnerable and she was allowed to show that.

I haven’t seen either, as these kinds of shows/movies are a little upsetting to me, but every time I see someone post about Michonne, I want to try to brave the blood-scenes to see her in action.

I’m just gonna jump on in here and say I  disagree with this. The reason why is because Selena was an excellent character up until the end, and the end is why I hate the movie 28 Days Later.

It was an incredible, wonderful movie up until the point where the 9th Doctor came along and suddenly it turned into Cillian Murphy saving the day by killing military dudes in order to save poor Selena who as soon as she fell in love with Cillian’s character, became a fucking helpless little flower petal. 

It was sickening to see this really wonderful character taken down to nothing more than a damsel in distress when up until that point, she had survived alone for so long. Suddenly, after she gets with Cillian, she can’t do it anymore? How shitty is that? There’s a difference between being vulnerable and scared, and being a princess in a tower waiting for your white knight.

That whole ending was just a really shitty ending, and that’s why I thought 28 Weeks Later was a million times better than the prior one. 

Meanwhile, even if I haven’t read the comics, I can say that Michonne is a badass through and through. If she falls in love, I’d like to see her stay that same badass. Falling in love with a person isn’t supposed to change your character so significantly, and the implication that she just couldn’t do anything anymore after she fell in love with Cillian really upset me to the point of turning off the movie the second Cillian got shirtless and started going on his dumb little revenge killing spree. It went from a ‘zombie’ movie to a masculine power fantasy.

I would love, love, love to see more characters that are allowed to stay the characters they are after they fall in love and stay incredible. There’s nothing wrong with being a helpless little flower petal, and there’s nothing wrong with being a total badass. The problem I have was that it was a sudden, uncalled for change.

So far, the only time I’ve seen this sort of ‘falling in love and not changing who you are’ sort of thing is in the book versions of Howl’s Moving Castle. The movie really fucked that part over but we’re not gonna go into that because that’s a whole nother can of worms, but regardless. 

Relationships do not change a person so drastically. If you want to portray a love story, the way a healthy and real love story should be, is that a relationship should affect the characters in ways that they both balance each other out and change little things about each other. Sometimes major changes happen. But they never, ever come right out of the blue. If you don’t have the time to develop that, or you don’t feel like it’s necessary to see that, then you probably shouldn’t have a love story in your movie at all.

And I 100% disagree with you. Michonne is very much a comic book character, hyperfunctional, hypervigilant, always competently taking care of business and like you say, always a badass. I love Michonne but she’s not like a real person, because comic books.

And your problem with Selena’s character seems to be grounded in a stereotype about Black women. I’m not happy necessarily comparing two Black women characters as a non-Black woman of color, but this is a HUGE failing of white feminism with CONSTANTLY ERASING how stereotypes about women of color and constructions of specifically WHITE femininity are utterly at odds with each other. Not all women are white, and sexism affects us differently. Representation in media is a part of that and it needs to be addressed.

Let me put it this way.

Cillian Murphy’s character Jim is so paper-thin, ham-handedly constructed and two-dimensional,  this is his only function:

The entire movie is really about Selena, why she is the way she is, what she has been through, and why she is loveable, competent, strong when she’s strong, weak when she’s weak, why she responds the way she does, and the way her character progresses and changes through the film makes her a dynamic, realistic character going through unbelievably intense circumstances.

Considering she just spent the first half of the movie throwing molotov cocktails and hacking up “zombies” to protect this guy:

NOW she is trapped, frightened, and really NEEDS “you” to return the favor.

I think expecting this woman, who’s not only understandably traumatized on account of “zombie” apocalypse but also being overtly threatened and imprisoned by fifteen men, while simultaneously PROTECTING A CHILD IN HER CARE SUCCESSFULLY, I might add, to also somehow figure out a way to rescue herself is asking way, wayyyy too much.

*Insert tacit acknowledgement that expecting viewers to identify with a straight white male main character is ubiquitously problematic here because this post is not about them*

I think at this point it’s much more important to ask why you expect Selena’s character  to be so very, very “strong”. How does this play into existing tropes about Black women characters, specifically?

Considering one of the comments above is from the url “selfrescuingprincesssociety”, I think it’s excruciatingly important to think about HOW CONSTRUCTIONS OF FEMININITY ARE DIFFERENT ACCORDING TO RACE. Because your problem with Selena’s character is “not feminist enough” because she’s not rejecting a construct of femininity (damsel-in-distress) that she never had access to in the first place!

Instead, you expect her to spend the entire movie rescuing everyone else and never having anyone return the favor?

You say this right out:

It was sickening to see this really wonderful character taken down to nothing more than a damsel in distress when up until that point, she had survived alone for so long. Suddenly, after she gets with Cillian, she can’t do it anymore?

The emphasis is yours. Why should she be alone? That’s the whole point, WHY would she WANT to be alone??? EVERYONE SHE KNEW IS DEAD. SHE WAS A PHARMACIST. SHE’S A REGULAR PERSON TRYING TO SURVIVE.

You also say:

 There’s nothing wrong with being a helpless little flower petal, and there’s nothing wrong with being a total badass. The problem I have was that it was a sudden, uncalled for change.

The definition of a dynamic character is one who changes during the course of the narrative. Seriously, there are books about this.

Michonne is a total badass. She is a static character.

Selena is a dynamic character. SHE CAN HAVE IT ALL. She is BOTH the “wilting flower” and the “total badass”. Naomie Harris gives us every single emotion, all three dimensions, incredible heroics, quiet, sad heroics, tender vulnerability and a longing that everyone can identify with-she doesn’t HAVE to be alone. She is loveable for everything she is.

aye-jennifer asked: What from of feminism do you best fit into? ie: Marxist feminism, Radical feminism, Socialist feminism, etc.

[tw: rape]

Feminism rejected me.

writeswrongs:

I’ve had a few white friends congratulate me on being quoted on Jezebel.  Something along the lines of “well you are finally being recognized for your intelligent words, I am proud of you.”

Recognized - not paid - in what way does that recognition take form?

Well, I gained a lot of new followers, most of them women of color or cool seeming white allies.   Yes, good.

But something that white women seem to forget so quickly as that as soon as they signal boost your words, their audience is not your audience.

Laura Beck isn’t followed by mostly women of color in the black and latin@ tumblr scene of people equipped to discuss race.  She’s being read by a largely white audience of proven time-and-time-again racist white women (and I’m sure, men).  

Her article itself is good - it has a lot of good points. And I’m sure she’ll get paid for her research that includes quoting me and other woc.  However, she gets to dodge a huge bullet I don’t.  She gets to write about Quvenzhane Wallis and barely touch on race, and when she does touch upon it, she uses my hand to do so.  She touches on race with my words, not her own.  So guess who’s suddenly going to be responsible to her white audience for maybe their first encounter with race intersecting feminism? 

Guess who isn’t going to protect me from her white audience?

I was already getting credit and recognition for my words.  Through woc followers on tumblr.  It doesn’t suddenly become relevant when a white person does it.

I’m really glad she gave me credit and that she used my words in her article.  I’m just not entirely pleased that when white people reblog you or quote you, they never collect their white garbage.  Laura Beck is going to be long gone when her readership comes here solely to call me a spic and tell me they wish i was deported.

Pro-tip: The vast majority of the women in the world are women of color, so if your feminism is not anti-racist, it’s oppressive towards MOST of the world’s women.

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